All things are balanced over time. The Order of Balance is one of the three Orders of Love in Family Constellations. (Precedence and Inclusion are the other two orders.) The practice of giving and receiving a gift is an energetic opportunity to make deep Soul contact with another. The gift,...

One of the first principles in the Family Constellation philosophy taught to us by Bert Hellinger is to simply Acknowledge What Is. Before any attempt at explaining, blaming, interpreting or efforts at healing, we need to just stop and acknowledge the facts as we know them to be. These are the...

Oh, may this be the one who will bring forward the good, true andbeautiful in our Family Lineage.  Oh, may this be the onewho will break the harmful family patterns. - Old European Ancestral saying, pg. 279, TCA**  To break the harmful family patterns that continue to bind us, someone...

In these times of stark opposing views and opinions of what is right and wrong, truthful or lying, it is difficult to not take sides. When we tell our stories, it is equally as difficult to not represent our view or opinion of the situation objectively without preference to good...

The simple act of bringing our palms together in Anjali Mudra as it is called in the East, or Prayer Hands in the West, is an ancient physical act of recognition. But why do we do this? What does this simple gesture and its ensuing energetic feeling convey from the...

When we honor our ancestors, our mothers and fathers, grandparents and all of our ancestral lineage, we have freedom and permission to go on with our lives.  We are free because we respect those that came before us and appreciate what we have received from them, giving acclaim to those...

An analogy that we like to use in The Constellation Approach™ is that life is like a large chessboard. Each of us is standing in our place on a particular square in relation to an opposing member from our life. It may be our mother, father, sibling, a previous relationship...

Every human being is given a specific set of blueprints they can follow to reach Soul awareness. This blueprint of the Soul comes in the form of our Family Lineage. No two individuals are the same, nor are any two families. Each unique blueprint is a specific path designed for...

The word Soul means many things to many people. In The Constellation Approach we refer to Soul as a consciousness of “the awareness of itself and the world in which it inhabits.” The Soul is all encompassing.  Its presence is individual and singular in our personal, human consciousness, exists within a...

Our life is really our Soul’s journey disguised in human form. Each of us has the capacity to align with our Soul nature if we choose to. Once we become awake and aware, our lives are never the same. We see that each human Soul is on their own path,...